Advice for early-stage Ph.D. studentsI know this sounds presumptuous, but if you just started a Ph.D. program, especially in science or engineering, bookmark this page and read it again once every month. You won't internalize much of it at the beginning, but more and more parts will start resonating with you as you gradually progress through grad school. [Created in 2013 and updated throughout the years whenever I feel like adding something new. Warning: these notes are very messy and disorganized.] Stop caring about classes. Just do what you need to pass!This first one is a super-cliche, but it's also super-true so I will mention it upfront: Nobody cares about how you do in your classes or your GPA during your Ph.D. years. Seriously, nobody cares. I've been involved in hiring Ph.D.s for many years, and my students and colleagues have gone onto all sorts of different jobs ... and not once has anyone ever mentioned GPA or class performance. Ever. Never. This means that you need to stop caring about your classes and just do whatever you need to do to pass them. You often need to take some classes as part of your Ph.D. degree requirements, so failing is bad because you'll have to waste more time re-taking them. But seriously, no professor is going to be impressed with you if you excelled in their class ... if anything, they will wonder why you're procrastinating from your research by spending so much time on their class. Some of the worst Ph.D. students I've seen have been the ones who spent a ton of time on classes (yes, even on my own classes!). That's not surprising, because it was their way of procrastinating from what actually matters: making progress on their own research. In my mind, this is the most important mindset change that undergrads need to undergo when they start a Ph.D. program. If you've made it this far, then you've spent 12+ years as a kid plus 4+ years in college focusing exclusively on classes. Classes were the only thing that “counted” for over 16 years of your life! And you know how to do them ... pay attention, take notes, do your homework, get help, study for exams, and repeat. And in the end all you get is an “A” grade on your transcript that nobody will ever care about now that you're pursuing a Ph.D. If you ever find yourself prioritizing your classes over your research, then you're in real trouble. Seriously. It's VERY EASY to procrastinate on your research by sinking time into your classes because you know how to do class stuff so well ... you've done this drill for over 16 years of your life and been good at it! In contrast, research is f*ing hard, like harder than anything else you could possibly be doing with your time right now. Spending an hour on class work makes you feel productive, comfortable, and satisfied; your brain has been trained for almost two freaking decades to find comfort in this kind of workflow. But spending that same hour on research will likely feel TERRIBLE since you may be outright stuck, going down some dead-end path, or wondering why you're even doing what you're doing in the first place; then you'll want to crawl back to the warm comfort of class work. Resist that trap. Allocate time every single day you're working to making some progress on your research, no matter how little (of course, take regular breaks too!). Only after you make some progress on your research (even a tiny bit) should you give yourself permission to do some class work. If you don't follow this disciplined approach, then you will spend nearly all of your time on classes and fall behind on research, which is the most surefire way to fail out of a Ph.D. program. Yes, I know it's harsh but true. I had to say it. [Related: If you need to be a TA in the future, spending an excessive amount of time on TA duties is another classic way to procrastinate on your research. Again, try to make some research progress every day before doing your required TA duties. Unfortunately some professors are notorious for overworking their TAs ... try to figure out ways to avoid TA-ing for those people if possible, since you're getting the exact same salary no matter what class you TA for.] Undergrad versus Ph.D. researchIf you're now in a Ph.D. program, you've likely had positive experiences with research as an undergraduate. Also, you've been a good student in school, scoring at the top of your class on exams and projects. And you've probably been praised throughout childhood for being a smart kid. My first warning for all new Ph.D. students is that Ph.D.-level research will be much more difficult than undergraduate research both in terms of the technical aspects and also the emotional stresses. So do not underestimate the inevitable hardships that await you in the coming years. One common cause of failure amongst early-stage Ph.D. students is underestimating the difficulty of the process, especially the early stages. At this point, you won't fully grasp the nuances of why this process is so hard, so the only advice I have is just to prepare for immense challenges in the years ahead. Everyone starts a Ph.D. program with an incredible amount of potential. But most students never come close to approaching their full potential for creative research achievements. And the reason is never because they're not smart or technically capable enough; everyone who gets admitted is smart enough. Rather, factors such as lack of resilience, perseverance, metacognition, and self-discipline are the main contributors to failure at the Ph.D. level. Fortunately, these traits can be fostered via self-reflection and mentorship. Uncertainty and isolationAll researchers-in-training must constantly grapple with:
If you can properly manage these two emotions and make consistent forward progress every single day, get private feedback from a mentor every week or two, and get external feedback from paper submissions a few times per year, then you can successfully finish your Ph.D. The bad news is that it's impossible to fully eliminate uncertainty and isolation when doing research. But if it's any consolation, recognize that these feelings are completely normal; all of your fellow grad students are facing them as well. (Update on 2014-02-15: A third daunting problem that many early-stage researchers face is that of project scoping. Research is often open-ended, but concrete deliverables must be produced. So how much work is required for an acceptable prototype or experiment? How much is enough for a respectable paper submission? How much is needed for a master's thesis? For a Ph.D. dissertation proposal? For a completed dissertation? In contrast, K-12 and university classes are all well-scoped by instructors' expectations.) Develop research tasteWhen you first start your Ph.D., you might want to immediately dive into implementing your own creative ideas. The problem is that your taste isn't yet calibrated to what is considered “good research” by your academic community. Even if you think your taste is impeccable, that doesn't matter one bit; to publish papers and earn a Ph.D., you need to do work that resonates with senior researchers in your field. But wait ... wasn't the appeal of being a researcher that you can do creative work rather than doing what your superiors order you to do?!? Well, sorta. To innovate in any creative field, you must first understand the tastes of the establishment, and only then can you inject your personal flair. (Matt Might illustrates nicely.) So how do you develop research taste? Read – Ask your advisor for a set of well-respected papers in your field published within the past few years. To earn a Ph.D., you will need to write papers that look like those, so learn their methodologies, technical conventions, and presentation styles now. Note that old papers might be fun to read, but they're less helpful for honing your taste, since you won't be able to publish papers like those anymore; their styles are often out of fashion. Assist – Assist your advisor, senior students, and postdocs in your lab on their projects. Make yourself as useful of a helper as possible without worrying about taking creative control. The best-case outcome here is that you end up as a non-lead coauthor on their papers and learn a lot about research methodology and conventions. Assisting also eliminates the uncertainty and isolation that often paralyze early-stage students. Grind – Even when you start developing good research taste, the early work you produce won't be good. That's okay! As cliched as this sounds, you need to grind hard for years before getting good at anything worthwhile. My favorite Ira Glass quote beautifully captures this idea:
What nobody tells people who are beginners – and I really
wish someone had told this to me ... is that all of us who do creative
work, we get into it because we have good taste. But there is this gap.
For the first couple years you make stuff, and it's just not that good.
It's trying to be good, it has potential, but it's not.
But your taste, the thing that got you into the game, is still killer.
And your taste is why your work disappoints you. A lot of people never
get past this phase. They quit. Most people I know who do interesting,
creative work went through years of this. We know our work doesn't have
this special thing that we want it to have. We all go through this. And
if you are just starting out or you are still in this phase, you gotta
know it's normal and the most important thing you can do is do a lot of
work. Put yourself on a deadline so that every week you will finish one
story.
It is only by going through a volume of work that you will close that
gap, and your work will be as good as your ambitions. And I took longer
to figure out how to do this than anyone I've ever met. It's gonna take
awhile. It's normal to take awhile. You've just gotta fight your way
through.
Also, read my article Lessons from the Grind about why grinding is a precursor for creativity. In short, without a ton of hard work, you can't even begin to generate original ideas that go beyond the state-of-the-art in your field. Finally, the sci-fi author William Gibson has a great mini-essay on developing creative taste as a fiction writer. Here is the concluding paragraph, with me substituting “writing” for “research”:
And therein, I think, lies most of how one learns to
do research. We have to learn to do research, but we have already, to
varying degrees, had to learn to read research. And I felt like quite a
good reader of research, when I began to do research, or at least a good
reader of that research which I most keenly enjoyed. And thus are we
shaped as researchers, I believe, not so much by who our favorite
researchers are as by our general experience of research. Learning to do
research, we learn to listen for our own acquired sense of what feels
right, based on the totality of the pleasure (or its lack) that research
has provided us. Not direct emulation, but rather a matter of a personal
micro-culture.
Most of the daily work you do will not feel like researchOne of the great ironies of Ph.D. student life is that you're supposedly here to do novel research, yet the majority of the time you spend at work will not feel at all like research. This is especially true in STEM fields. For instance, you may be spending most of your workdays installing, configuring, and debugging ad-hoc software, writing prototype code, calibrating scientific instruments, fabricating custom materials, wiring up hardware components, feeding and caring for lab animals, performing procedures on lab animals, cleaning up after lab animals, moving live cell cultures from one refrigeration unit to another, or an assortment of other mundane tasks that don't “feel” like research. (Some well-funded labs hire technical staff to handle these tasks, but in practice Ph.D. students are the ones who do them.) One negative side-effect of spending so much of your time on tasks that don't feel like research is that you may lose sight of the big-picture of why you're doing all of these seemingly-mundane tasks, the proverbial “missing the forest for the trees.” It may seem at times that you're spending only a tiny fraction of your time during your Ph.D. contributing to the higher-level big-picture of research. That's a perfectly normal feeling for students across STEM fields. I don't have any advice here except to acknowledge that you're not alone in feeling this way, and that it's still important to pop your head up once in a while to understand the big picture (to see the forest rather than all the trees). However, the reality is that you will be spending the majority of your work days (maybe 90% or more) deep in the weeds of your work to the point where it simply won't feel like research. Be aware that this is bound to happen, but don't lose sight of the big picture of what you're working toward. Understand your advisorBehind that facade of authority, your Ph.D. advisor is a human being with their own needs, wants, and biases. The better you understand your advisor, the smoother your Ph.D. experience will be. Perhaps the most important question is: Does your advisor have tenure? If not, then their top priority is earning tenure so that they can keep their job. If you work with an untenured advisor, then your work will directly contribute to their tenure case. Thus, untenured advisors are usually more hands-on and provide more structure for their Ph.D. students' careers. Also, untenured advisors are easier to read, since their main professional goal is to build a compelling research portfolio for their tenure case. If your advisor already has tenure, then they might have varying motivations. Do they want to build up a larger and more ambitious research program? Are they trying to break into a new line of research? Are they now more focused on professional service, advocacy, or teaching? Tenured advisors tend to be a bit more hands-off since their careers aren't as dependent on their Ph.D. students' performance. But of course, there are many tenured advisors who are still just as hungry for success as they were in their younger, untenured years. It's ultimately up to you to gauge their motivations and priorities. There is no perfect advisor (not by a longshot!)This may seem obvious, but it bears repeating: there is no perfect advisor. No matter how “good” your advisor is, there will always be something more you wish for them to do. If you come into grad school expecting for your advisor to provide a well-paved path for your graduation, then you are going to be in for a rude awakening. People often succeed in their Ph.D. in spite of their advisor's imperfections, so you'll need to figure out ways to compensate for what your advisor cannot provide. Getting a Ph.D. requires a tremendous amount of self-initiative, and there's simply no way you can rely on your advisor (or any other person) to carry you to the finish line. Be really patientFor a six-year Ph.D. (which is typical for science and engineering programs in the U.S.), what you do in the first three years probably won't count toward your dissertation. Seriously, pretty much every Ph.D. graduate I've spoken with shares this same experience. So be patient. If you've finished three years and still don't have a dissertation project with published papers under your belt, it's okay. As long as you've been learning to develop good research taste by reading, assisting other people's projects, and trying (and probably failing) to push forward your own projects, then you've set yourself up well for the second half of grad school. For instance, I started my first successful Ph.D. project at the beginning of my fourth year and didn't get the paper published until the middle of my fifth year. You will inevitably encounter peers who are “ahead of you” in their Ph.D., publishing more papers and finding success earlier on in grad school. That's okay! It's not a head-to-head competition; there is no class curve. So be patient and march forward every day, one bit at a time. (Note that if you work with an untenured advisor, then they have a strong vested interest in getting you up to speed and productive as quickly as possible, since they need more publications to build up their tenure case.) Make professors want to help youYou can't get good as a researcher without help from professors, but the conundrum is that professors like helping students who are already good at research. If a professor had the choice between spending an hour with an all-star student who is about to submit a strong paper and a naive early-stage student, which meeting would they look forward to? Which meeting would be more fun for them? In general, professors look forward to helping students who, paradoxically, need less help. Here's an open secret: Professors are neither hired nor promoted based on how well they mentor grad students. Advising quality only matters to the extent that good advising can produce papers, but I've seen plenty of bad advisors successfully crack the whip to churn out papers as well. When I interviewed for faculty jobs, never once did my interviewers ask how I would advise Ph.D. students, or about fostering grad student health in general. In fact, the topic of grad students never came up, except when they were complaining about bad ones. Sadly, those are the students who need the most help but don't know how to get it. So what's the lesson here? You need to make professors want to help you. Repeat: You need to make professors want to help you. How? One way is by demonstrating that you have impeccable work ethic and great potential for future success, so that they feel like their time is being well spent. Another way is to discover what truly excites them and adapt your interests to theirs. Read my article Lead From Below for more details on this technique. If can't make professors want to help you, then they would rather devote their energies to their other students. Heck, even as they're meeting with you, they might be wishing that they were instead hanging out with their all-star student. (This advice applies to all jobs, not just research. The most successful employees are often those who make their bosses or mentors want to help them.) Find peer supportThe happiest and most successful Ph.D. students are those who have maintained a strong peer support group throughout grad school. Remember, isolation comes by default, so you need to proactively seek out peers for camaraderie. Your department and advisors cannot do much to help, despite their most sincere efforts: Lab lunches and snack breaks are superficial patches and don't do much to eliminate the endemic feelings of isolation. So seek strength from your peers, not from your senior colleagues. (However, be careful not to surround yourself with peers who are a negative influence on you, such as students who are overly cynical and refuse to put in the necessary work; those students will drag you down crabs-in-a-bucket style.) Avoid infectious negativityNegativity is infectious. I understand that there will be times when you feel negative about research, teaching, or academia in general (especially when your papers get rejected!). Trust me, I've gone through plenty of those low times myself! Don't be a student who infects others with negativity. In the challenging world of academic research, positivity is so precious and so easily overtaken by infectious negativity. Don't unravel the hard work that your fellow grad students undergo to maintain their positivity in the presence of the many challenges that they're facing. Likewise, be very careful about hanging around students who are infectiously negative. It is really easy for those vibes to rub off on you. (This also includes “hanging out” in bad online spaces too ... certain kinds of discussion forums and social media groups are cesspools of unfettered negativity.) Be careful about getting advice from senior students, especially those outside of your areaSenior Ph.D. students often have very different concerns than early-stage students like yourself. So even if they are well-meaning, their advice may not apply directly to you. This is especially true for senior students who are outside of your own research area. So be careful about taking advice from students in different areas, not because it's necessarily “bad” advice but more because details vary so much by area in academia. (Taken to the extreme, I would strongly advise against reading online student forums for advice, since the students who post on there are from all sorts of different areas and are usually more infectiously negative.) That said, I think where senior Ph.D. students can give the best advice is giving you insights on ways to interact with your own advisor or with related professors in your research area. So definitely talk candidly with your labmates, groupmates, and other area colleagues about how to best interact with faculty in your area; that is very valuable information! Understand your jobThe happiest and most successful Ph.D. students understand that this is a job, albeit a unique one with different expectations than industry jobs. The most angst-ridden students still think of the Ph.D. experience as an extended form of school and a shelter from getting a “real job.” Well, this is a job! I've noticed that students with a few years of industry experience generally have a better time in grad school than those who came straight from college. This is a massive over-generalization, though. Counterexamples abound on both sides. [Update in Jan 2021: as a counterpoint, some students who are coming from industry treat it TOO MUCH like a job where they just want a boss telling them what to do day-to-day. That's not good either. You need to take much more ownership of your Ph.D. projects than in industry jobs, since your advisor isn't a traditional industry “boss.”] So what exactly is your job? To publish high-quality academic papers that contribute valuable new knowledge to your field. Read this for more details: A mid-timer's thoughts on publishing academic papers In most science and engineering fields, students are funded by their advisors' grants, which stipulate specific projects or research directions that they must work on. As a student, your funding source, advisor's expectations, and the current tastes of the research community all dictate what kind of work you can potentially do. You don't have total freedom; but then again, nobody does. Once you've internalized your role at this job, then you can figure out ways to be creative within those constraints. Also, I highly recommend spending a summer or two interning at a company during grad school, especially in a non-research role. Internships not only help you understand how projects get done with much shorter time horizons than research projects, but also help you develop skills that are useful outside of academia. [I know this isn't standard practice in all fields, but it is in mine.] Make yourself accountableHere's one major difference between industry and academia:
Thus, it's much easier to slip through the cracks in academia because you are often not on anybody's critical path. (By critical path I mean the path of work that is critical for their career advancement.) Your advisor is juggling 100 other tasks at any given moment; so if you have an unproductive few days or weeks, nobody will likely notice. The one notable exception is if you have a untenured advisor who needs your project as part of their tenure case; then by definition you are on their critical path to earning tenure. Also, research is inherently less concrete than industry work, so it's harder to track daily progress. If you're not performing up to par in industry, your teammates notice immediately and will figure out some way to get you back on track ... or get you fired. After all, their careers are depending on you, so they can't afford to have you drag along as dead weight. In contrast, as a grad student, if you're in a slump for a few weeks, your advisor might not notice if they're busy juggling 100 other tasks. One hack is to find ways to make yourself accountable to other people, thereby simulating this desirable aspect of industry jobs. If you can tie your success directly to someone else's, then they will be more likely to keep you on track and making consistent progress toward your mutual goals. The most common case here is working with a senior student or postdoc so that your project is a component of their larger project; that way, their success is tied to yours. And more broadly, working with an untenured advisor makes you accountable too, since their tenure case is tied to your work. Here are some other ways to create accountability for yourself:
Details will vary depending on what kind of research you do, but the idea remains the same: By default there's little day-to-day accountability in a Ph.D. program, so you need to take the initiative to create accountability for yourself. Develop a Fixed Work ScheduleRelated to Make Yourself Accountable, another thing that really helps Ph.D. students maintain focus is developing a fixed work schedule that you can easily follow each and every week. This schedule will differ depending on your type of work, but here I'm assuming that your research involves working on your computer and not being in a physical lab or field site. Here's an example schedule: Weekdays (Monday–Friday):
Weekend (Saturday–Sunday):
The most important thing is to always do your research work before any other work in your day, since that's when your mind is the freshest. Here's a relevant excerpt from The Daily Routines of 12 Famous Writers:
Do the most important thing first. Notice how many excellent
writers start writing in the morning? That's no coincidence. They work
on their goals before the rest of the day gets out of control. They
aren't wondering when they're going to write and they aren't battling to
“fit it in” amongst their daily activities because they are
doing the most important thing first.
As a Ph.D. student, your research is the most important thing for your career, so make some progress on it as the first thing each day (e.g., 8-11am) before your day inevitably spirals out of control with other obligations or distractions. It doesn't matter how much progress you make on research each morning, the most important thing is that you SIT DOWN AND TRY. As Jerry Seinfeld says, Don't break the chain. Most days will feel like a slow slog, but some rare days will feel amazing. But you gotta keep trying every day. Do everything you can to protect your morningsOnce you establish a fixed work schedule, protect your Monday–Friday 8-11am research time as much as you can. Otherwise since it's all too easy to let this slip because nobody is “forcing” you to stay on that schedule. For example:
Hi <inconsiderate advisor who scheduled without asking me>,
I just saw that lab meetings this semester are Wednesdays at 10am. If there's any way to schedule it at 11am or after, I'd really appreciate it. As a matter of personal discipline, I block off 8-11am every morning to make focused progress on research so that I can contribute most effectively to our lab's work. (I believe some other students may have classes or other obligations to attend to at Wednesdays 10am as well.) If lab meetings really can't be rescheduled this term, then I totally understand and will attend each week at 10am. As a new student in the lab, I don't want to appear too demanding, but my 8-11am research times are critical for me to contribute best to the lab. I'd appreciate it if in future semesters we could discuss lab meeting scheduling farther in advance. Thanks, <super-scared grad student hoping you won't hate me now>
Hi <scary senior colleague>,
Thanks for including me in <boring meeting you're forcing me to attend against my will>. If there's any way to schedule it after 11am (or before 8am), I'd really appreciate it. As a matter of personal discipline, I block off 8-11am every morning to make focused progress on my research. If the meeting can't be rescheduled, then sorry I might not be able to make it. But I'm happy to do extra work to contribute to this effort asynchronously, such as <alternate work before or after meeting>. Of course, if it's absolutely critical that I attend the meeting at this time, then please let me know and I totally understand; some one-time events shouldn't be skipped. But thanks in advance for your consideration of my scheduling preferences. I would like to help out however I can. <super-scared grad student hoping you won't hate me now> If you assert your 8-11am boundaries, you'll find that lots of meetings aren't truly critical for you to attend ... senior people schedule all sorts of f-ing useless meetings, so if you just push back a bit, they might be like “Oh yeah don't worry about it, you should definitely focus on your research! I wish I could be as disciplined as you!” Seriously, people will respect you more for politely enforcing your boundaries. Again, the key is to communicate to everyone that you have strict 8-11am boundaries. It may well be that your advisor says “ok I get where you're coming from, but you REALLY NEED to come to this meeting since an important funder is here tomorrow morning, and they want to see your demo” in which case you should obviously back down and attend. But at least your advisor knows that they're poking into your protected time, so they understand that you've made a sacrifice to be there for this one-time meeting. If you don't communicate scheduling boundaries at all out of fear, then they will assume that you don't have any. Politely but consistently asserting your boundaries can win you respect as a junior colleague who is a future peer of these super-scary-senior-people, not as some subordinate whom they can just push around at will. (Ideally you'd also assert boundaries like no meetings on nights or weekends. But for starters, 8-11am is the most important since that's your protected personal research time. You may not feel comfortable being too demanding up-front.) Politely turn down volunteer service work requestsAcademia is a “gift economy.” What this means is that everyone volunteers as a “gift” to one another to keep the academic community running. Without massive amounts of volunteering, academia would completely collapse. Locally at your university, this may mean volunteering to organize research group meetings, invited talks, special social events, or department seminars, and maybe showing visitors around campus. Beyond your university, people volunteer to organize conferences, workshops, mentoring events, and social events, to write reference letters, and to manage the entire peer-reviewed publication process. This sort of volunteer work is called “service work” – work done as a service to your professional community. We all should pitch in to do service work to keep our community healthy and to be good citizens in our field; it's the right thing to do! That said, it's also important not to be saddled with too much service work when you're a new Ph.D. student trying to get your research off the ground. Unfortunately, shit always rolls downhill (Newton's Fourth Law of Motion) so students often bear the brunt of the most tedious service work. And it can be hard to fend off these requests because, by definition, they come from more senior and powerful colleagues. Even worse, some types of students (e.g., those in underrepresented groups) are often asked to do more than their fair share of service work. To counteract these forces, I'll give some email templates here to help you push back even when you're feeling powerless. OK first things first, if someone approaches you in-person with a service work request, here's what you say:
Never agree to a request there in-person! Stalling buys you time to craft a good email response. It's much easier to say No via email than to say it verbally to someone's face. OK, here are some email templates you can use (regardless of whether someone asked you to do service work in-person or via email). If this person is outside of your department, then you really have no obligation to them whatsoever, so you can reply with something like:
Hi <scary senior colleague from outside my department>,
Thanks for inviting me to <do this time-consuming service task that has absolutely no benefit for my career>. I've given your request a lot of thought over the past few days and also talked to my advisor about it. Even though I'd love to help out right now, my advisor and I decided that it's critical for me to focus on my research toward this coming deadline <e.g., a paper submission or thesis proposal or whatever>. We're struggling with a really hard part of the problem right now and starting to make some headway, so we'd like to focus deeply on it in the coming weeks. If you'd like me to recommend some other students <to throw under the bus for your task>, just let me know. Or please email me back next time around if you think I can be of help later when my schedule is more clear. Best wishes with your initiative, <super-scared grad student hoping you won't hate me now> The key idea to realize here is that they probably don't care WHO does this service work they're trying to pass off ... they just need somebody to do it. They asked you since your name popped into their head, but they're fine with some other grad student doing it. It doesn't have to be you. And whatever you do, do NOT accept a meeting with them to chat about their request. Once you agree to a meeting, then they have home-court advantage and can pressure you into saying Yes. Email is your best defense. Now if this person is inside your department, especially if they're in your research area and might be on your dissertation committee, then you need to tread more carefully. It's harder to say No to someone who's closer to you. Example template:
Hi <scary professor who might be on my future committee>,
Thanks for inviting me to <do this time-consuming service task that has absolutely no benefit for my career>. I've given your request a lot of thought over the past few days and also talked to my advisor about it. Even though I'd love to help out right now, my advisor and I decided that it's critical for me to focus on my research toward this coming deadline <e.g., a paper submission or thesis proposal or whatever>. We're struggling with a really hard part of the problem right now and starting to make some headway, so we'd like to focus deeply on it in the coming weeks. Of course, I recognize that it's important for all grad students to pitch in to help run department / lab events, so I am happy to accept this task if you think I'm best-suited to do it. Perhaps you can talk to my advisor about it? Thanks, <super-scared grad student hoping you won't hate me now> Finally, the hardest person to turn down is your own advisor, so you may not win these battles. But it's still good to state your case:
Hi <advisor whom I'm mortally afraid of>,
Thanks for inviting me to <do this time-consuming service task that has absolutely no benefit for my career>. I've given your request a lot of thought over the past few days. Even though I'd love to help out right now, I'd really like to focus on my research toward this coming deadline <e.g., a paper submission or thesis proposal or whatever>. I'm struggling with a really hard part of the problem right now and starting to make some headway, so I'd like to focus deeply on it in the coming weeks. That said, I know how important it is to be a good lab citizen and do my fair share of service, since everyone else is pitching in too. So if you feel this task is a meaningful use of my time, then of course I'll do it for you. Thanks, <super-scared grad student hoping you won't hate me now> P.S. From talking to my labmates, I noticed that some of us are asked to do more service than others, so perhaps we can talk at our next one-on-one meeting about how to more evenly distribute service work across all students in the lab? I just want us all to do our fair share. With an email like this, even if you have to accept the service request (since it's very hard to say No to your own advisor), at least they will know that you'd like to push back. In the end, they get what they want – you're doing the service work they asked for. And you also get (part of) what you want – you let your advisor know that you have some boundaries, so hopefully they will be more considerate in the future. Of course, don't B.S. your advisor – if you turn down their service request, you had better be making good progress on your research and not just slacking off! Again, I'm not saying that you should turn down ALL service requests ... since if everyone turned down all requests, then academia would collapse. We all need to do service to pitch in (heck, I've done a lot of service over the years!) ... but the important thing is that you feel like you're doing your fair share instead of being unfairly exploited. There are good reasons to say Yes to service work – because it's fun or fulfilling, because you get to learn a new skill, because you get to meet new people, because you owe your friend a favor for helping you out earlier, or because your labmates have all pitched in already so it's only fair that you do too. OK, so what if you either can't turn down a service request or actually want to do it? Here are some guidelines:
Pushing back against professors who overwork you as a TAAside from doing volunteer service work, if you need to TA for funding then that work can eat up a lot of your time without benefiting your research. Once again, similar guidelines apply, so I'll repeat them here:
Ideally you would TA for your own advisor so that they can protect you against overwork (if they're nice!). However, if you're TA-ing for another professor, then your fate is in their hands. Some professors are reasonable, while others are notorious for overworking their TAs. Before applying for TAships, ask previous TAs to see how particular professors are, and try to avoid ones that overwork their TAs. That's the best solution. But if you're stuck in a bad situation with an unfair professor, then you've got to push back and protect your time. If you don't proactively protect your time, then your research progress will suffer. Here's an example email template:
Hi <terrible professor who overworks their TAs>,
I've been tracking my work hours for the past few weeks and noticed that I'm consistently putting in over 30 hours per week on TA work for you class. Our TA contract says we should be working 20 hours per week. I understand these time guidelines are probably flexible and situation-dependent, so I'd like to meet with you to talk about how I can streamline my work to be more efficient. I want to do the best job for you and the students while staying within the allotted 20 hours per week. I've documented in detail what I'm spending time on each week for your class, so if we review my logs together then you can probably give me some good advice about how to work more efficiently as a TA. Thanks, <super-scared grad student hoping you won't hate me now> If your advisor is more senior/powerful than the professor you're TA-ing for, then you can also lean on your advisor to muscle in. After all, part of your advisor's job is to protect their students from unfair exploitation. Maybe add an extra Godfather-style line to your email saying something like:
P.S. I've gone over my TA work hours log with my advisor, and they also
feel that parts could probably be streamlined. Would you be OK with my
advisor sitting in on our meeting when we discuss this issue? Thanks!
This is the nuclear option, though, so be very careful about deploying it due to possible backlash :) For instance, if your advisor is junior, then they might be scared to step in head-to-head against a senior professor, so don't press them too hard. Regardless, nobody will care about what this professor thought of you as a TA ... it won't affect your career either way. So do a good-enough job, get paid, and move on. Keep movingIf you're actively working on a project (i.e., not on vacation) and spend more than a few days not doing anything concrete related to it, then you're stuck. It's critical that you talk to your advisor or another mentor immediately so that they can help you get unstuck ASAP. There's no shame in being stuck; it happens to everyone. It's your advisor's job to get you unstuck. Joel Spolsky's Fire And Motion eloquently sums up the philosophy of keep moving:
In infantry battles, [the general] told us, there is only one strategy:
Fire and Motion. You move towards the enemy while firing your weapon.
The firing forces him to keep his head down so he can't fire at you.
(That's what the soldiers mean when they shout "cover me." It means,
"fire at our enemy so he has to duck and can't fire at me while I run
across this street, here." It works.) The motion allows you to conquer
territory and get closer to your enemy, where your shots are much more
likely to hit their target. If you're not moving, the enemy gets to
decide what happens, which is not a good thing. If you're not firing,
the enemy will fire at you, pinning you down.
And Michael Nielsen in Principles of Effective Research:
In my opinion, there is little that is more important in research than
building forward momentum. Being clear about some goal, even if that
goal is the wrong goal, or the clarity is illusory, is tremendously
powerful. For the most part, it’s better to be doing something, rather
than nothing, provided, of course, that you set time aside
frequently for reflection and reconsideration of your goals. Much of the
time in research is spent in a fog, and taking the time to set clear
goals can really help lift the fog.
Many Ph.D. students fail not because they're not smart or hardworking, but because they get stuck for extended periods of time and then grow demoralized. Keep moving. See this talk for more details: Advice for first-year Ph.D. students. Avoid the dreaded loop of despairRelated to Keep Moving (see above), you want to avoid getting stuck and falling into this dreaded loop of despair:
Avoid this loop by asking for serious help whenever you've been stuck on something for one week at most! If your advisor isn't available, grab a senior student, postdoc, or other colleague ASAP. Don't be ashamed to ask for help. Yes, it's important to try to figure things out yourself, but after a few days of being stuck, it's important to get help ASAP or else you'll risk falling into this loop of despair. Everyone is busy, but ask them for help anywaysRelated to the “dreaded loop of despair” point above, you'll find that the people who may be able to provide the best help to get you unstuck are often the most busy ones. (And conversely, the ones who are the most free to shoot the breeze anytime are probably not the most helpful.) Don't be afraid of bugging busy people (within reason, of course!) ... if you show genuine effort and care in your work, then even super-busy people will empathize and want to help you out. It may take a while to schedule meetings with super-busy people, but keep at it. Don't be afraid of wasting people's time or being a bother to them. If you've shown genuine effort and a desire to improve, then you're not wasting anyone's time. Once you do get a meeting, have the confidence to ask for what you need ... come prepared with a set of questions or even requests for follow-up actions. Again, if you've shown genuine effort, then people will be willing to help if it fits into their schedule. If you don't ask, then you're never going to get what you want or need. The worst-case scenario is to retreat in isolation for long stretches of time when you're stuck, since the longer you're in a rut the harder it is to dig yourself out. Managing Your Advisor (podcast excerpt from 2021)Here's a very relevant podcast excerpt from April 2021: The Effort Report, Ep. 136 - Entrepreneurialism. The excerpt starts at 1:14 and ends at 7:23. Here is a transcript of this excerpt, which I've edited, condensed, and paraphrased. Elizabeth and Roger are both senior faculty who have worked with many students ... Elizabeth: So I saw this thread on Twitter that talks about “managing up.” He said, “I told one of my research staff that you have to treat any busy manager like a hyperactive toddler who needs clear and constant instructions and reminders – especially professors.” He means that if you work for someone and you're trying to get stuff done, you'll be more effective if you're able to manage up. I think that's very confusing, especially if you're new to an academic environment. It may be tempting to say, “Well, I sent an email [to some professor] two weeks ago and no one replied to me.” And then have that be the end. For the majority of faculty I know, it requires, unfortunately, a lot of energy and sending follow-up emails to remind them of things. I don't know any faculty that are offended by those follow-up emails. Follow-up email is just one example of managing up, but it's the principle of it, which is that if you need to get something done, you have to manage your boss to get from them what you need in order to accomplish whatever is in front of you. And it's a bummer, but I find that to be the case with many faculty. Roger: I think the “up” part is a little misleading. To me it's more about managing in general. One of the things that's hard to get if you're a student or postdoc, and you're working with a faculty advisor, is you tend to think of the professor as being just like a really experienced version of you ... what you hope to be 10 or 20 years from now. That may be true, but managing is trying to get out of people what they're the best at. It's true your advisor is good at the science, or whatever it is you're doing, but the thing that makes them your advisor – what they're best at – is making decisions that balance trade-offs you don't even understand yet. If you can get a decision or even help on a decision out of your advisor, then that's leveraging their skills ... that's leveraging the kind of unique thing that your advisor is good at. Elizabeth: Can you make up a hypothetical example? Roger: I think what he's saying in the Twitter thread is that you need to structure the conversation in terms of decisions. If you have a question, it's more efficient to pitch it as like, there's a small number of choices and I need help figuring out which one to take. Not open-ended like, “Here's my current paper draft. What do you think?” It should be like, “Here's my paper draft, I'm having trouble with this one section. I don't know if I should include one statistical model, three models, or ten models.” And your advisor will be like, “Well, look, given the nature of the journal that we're submitting to, and I know that readers expect this, and that's the nature of this result, it requires sensitivity analysis [a mathematical technique]. So we should do ten models.” That kind of experience is what you're leveraging when you talk to an advisor. But in order to get that out of them, you need to phrase it in a way that's like, “Here's a few choices I'm considering.” Elizabeth: And that's easier said than done. Roger: I agree. I'm not saying it's easy, but I think this is the gist of it. It doesn't matter if it's managing up or down. It's just how to most efficiently make use of someone's time. Elizabeth: The reason the word “up” is helpful is because people are afraid to manage up. Or they don't even understand that it's a concept because they're like, “Oh this is my advisor. Why would I be managing her?” And so I think the word “up” is helpful in clarifying that management goes up too. Contact HoursExcerpt from a July 2020 email that I sent to my own mid-stage Ph.D. students: welcome to my TED talk ... basically at this point you're all well-positioned to innovate in a particular area, and i've been thinking of what personal “metrics” you could have for day-to-day success (since external metrics like getting a paper published or winning awards are so long-term, uncertain, and due to forces way outside of your control). and the one thing i could come up with is simply “number of contact hours with your core research.” teachers (especially in K-12) have this concept of “contact hours” in the classroom where they're directly interacting with students. that is, they can read all the literature about pedagogy they want, prep all their course materials as polished as they can, or talk with other teachers about their experiences (which can all be helpful prerequisites!), but nothing replaces the sheer number of hours they spend in the classroom with students. that's where they truly get a sense of classroom dynamics, reading the room, knowing which students are doing well or need help, etc., all of that tacit knowledge. i'm sure experts in other fields have similar concepts, like pilots with # contact hours in the simulators and in real-life flying. if you want a long-term career in research (whether in academia or industry), i think that relying on external metrics like publications, awards, promotions, etc. isn't sufficient since they only come about once or twice per year at most (in the best case!) and are dependent on many factors outside of your control. pretty much the only thing in your control is your # of contact hours with your core work every day. i'd go as far as to say if you really want to track something, track:
i would bet that those numbers are very strongly correlated with ultimate success. and the intuition here is that contact hours directly translate into you building up tacit knowledge about the specific area you're working on, which brings you ever-so-slightly closer to the frontier and also separates you from the pack of other people who might be working on similar things. by putting in a non-trivial number of contact hours, that's how you break away from the pack of other people who might think of similar ideas as you. they can be interested in the topic, but if they're brainstorming shallowly without those contact hours under their belt that you do, then they'll NEVER be able to come up with the leaps of insight necessary for substantial research innovations. ... and the real kicker is that when you put in those contact hours, most of the time it will FEEL like you're doing something trivial and uninteresting, like coding up something, hooking up software APIs, cleaning data, etc., but if your mind is open to being “in the zone” you'll absorb the tacit knowledge about your domain by doing so. and then by meeting with others to reflect on what you did, that will deepen your knowledge. then you'll get to the point where the next step always seems “obvious,” but those steps aren't obvious to other people who haven't put in those hours that you have. and that will be your critical advantage!!! now comes the part where people might ask for numbers ... how many hours is “enough”? in steady-state without any impending deadlines, i think 3-4 solid contact hours per day, most days of the week, plus 1-2 advisor meetings per week is optimal. so there's absolutely no need to lose sleep or to neglect your health! thanks for coming to my TED talk. Related video: reframe from goals to actions My project stinks ... should I quit and find something else?This is a really hard question to answer, but it's also very important. Basically, when to quit and when to grit? In other words, when should you cut your losses and quit, and when should you grit it out for a bit longer in the hopes of getting better results?
There's no hard-and-fast rule for when to quit a project. But here are some ideas:
Writing PapersAs if doing the actual research weren't hard enough, ultimately you need to write up your research in the form of paper submissions to run the gauntlet of peer review. I won't try to give any paper-writing advice here, but this article encapsulates some relevant thoughts: A mid-timer's thoughts on publishing academic papers OK just kidding, here's some high-level paper-writing advice:
Don't worry about big-talkersEven though in academia we spend 95% of our time heads-down working alone and silently, the other 5% of the time is spent in social interactions such as weekly lab/group meetings, department seminars, school events, and professional conferences. As a Ph.D. student, you'll observe (by definition!) two kinds of fellow students in these social settings:
Don't worry about the big-talkers. You do your thing, and they do theirs. I could reassure you that big-talkers are just trying to compensate for a lack of substantive work, but that's not always true; some big-talkers can back it up with good work, while others can't. My point is that it shouldn't matter to you either way. Don't automatically assume that the big-talkers are somehow “doing better” than you by some unknown metric. After all, social interactions are only 5% of grad school; but it's tempting to feel self-conscious about them since they're the most visible parts. You don't see what everyone else is doing the other 95% of the time. At the junior level in any field, what's far more important is what you do during the 95% of actual work time, not the 5% of social time. You can be as silent as a potato at all professional events, but if you do great work then everyone will still think highly of you. Yes, it's true that as you move up the ranks in the future, the 5% of social time interactions become more important, and you too will have to learn to be a big(ger) talker. But trying to emulate big-talkers too early on is not a good use of your time. Focus on excelling in your 95%-time day after day, month after month, year after year. Eventually you'll find yourself naturally engaging with influential senior people once you've built up a foundation of great work; then younger students will start thinking that you're one of the big-talkers :) Don't compare yourself to other students[somewhat related to the above point about big-talkers] Even if your advisor tries to be fair, they won't treat every one of their students identically. Different students at different stages of their careers need differing kinds of advisor attention. Moreover, everyone's personality is different and meshes differently with their advisor's, so the ways they interact will differ widely. Don't directly compare yourself to other students, especially in what kinds of interactions they have with their advisors. You often don't know the full context and details of what your fellow grad students need at any given time. More broadly, students in your cohort will publish papers at different times and at different rates, and that's OK! This isn't a race; you're not in direct competition with your peers. So celebrate each other's victories! Be happy for them! And some students will be highly-visible big-talkers who seem to have it all figured out. Again, don't compare yourself to big-talkers ... don't worry about them at all. Finally, don't compare yourself to your peers at other universities either. There will always be highly-visible outliers who seem to publish a gazillion papers or win a gazillion awards. Don't sweat it. You do your thing, and they'll do theirs. The research pie is big enough for all of us to have a delicious slice :) Social Media and Online Presence[written in Feb 2021, about a year after I deleted all my social media and most of my online writings/videos/etc., so I'm clearly a bit biased!] I've gotten a lot of benefits from being Very Online earlier in my career, but I've also experienced the downsides too. So here is my biased take on what I think new Ph.D. students should do in terms of social media and online presence. First off, if you don't have a personal website yet, make one ASAP! You can host it for free on your university's servers or on GitHub. It doesn't need to be fancy at all: just create a single page and put your basic academic info on there. At minimum, put your name, brief bio, CV, and PDFs of your published papers. It's much much much easier for your advisor to refer you to professional opportunities or for potential employers to forward your information along to colleagues when they can simply send a URL. In contrast, LinkedIn or other sites can be a pain since viewers might need to log in to see all your info. Thus, if someone searches for your name, your personal website should come up first, not LinkedIn. Next, I recommend using social media carefully ... I'm not saying you shouldn't use it, because there are certainly benefits, but I think you should be thoughtful about how you use it. Here's some food for thought:
Bottom line: use social media if you want, but you definitely don't need it to be a successful Ph.D. student. Do create a simple personal website, though. Then focus as much as you can on doing work that leads to publishing well-regarded papers in your field. The best online presence in the world won't help your career if you don't have a strong publication record. And that's the bottom line, cuz Stone Cold said so. Commonly Observed Struggles[Written in June 2020 after finishing my sixth year as an assistant professor. By this point I've participated in six end-of-year meetings where faculty collectively discuss the progress of all Ph.D. students in our department. Here are some of the most common struggles we've seen.]
Relevant videos that reinforce the above points: |